Cemetery Etiquette
When visiting a cemetery, it’s important to follow a few simple guidelines to show respect for others and maintain a peaceful environment. Being mindful of your actions helps ensure a thoughtful experience for everyone who visits.
Follow The Rules
Most cemeteries have a sign posted near the entrance listing rules specific to the property. Follow the rules and observe any floral regulations they might have set.
Visit During Open Hours
Most cemeteries welcome visitors from sunrise to sunset. Staying after dark may be considered trespassing, so it’s best to plan your visit accordingly.
Drive Responsibly
Stick to the designated roads and avoid driving on the grass. Keep your speed low and be mindful of pedestrians. If a narrow lane is blocked by another vehicle, kindly offer to move so they can pass.
Visiting With Respect
Be Gentle Around Graves
Avoid touching or leaning on headstones and monuments, as they can be fragile—especially older ones. Please don’t take items left at gravesites, such as flowers or keepsakes, as they may hold deep meaning for loved ones.
Supervise Children
Children are welcome in cemeteries, but they should be guided on how to behave respectfully. Encourage quiet voices and gentle behavior, and keep them from climbing or playing near graves or memorials.
Use a Quiet Voice
Cemeteries are places of reflection and remembrance. Keep conversations soft and respectful, and avoid using harsh or inappropriate language.
Silence Electronics
Before entering, silence your phone and avoid using it for calls or loud media. Also, turn off car stereos while driving or parking on cemetery grounds to maintain a quiet, peaceful atmosphere.
Give Space to Services
If a funeral or private visit is in progress, keep a respectful distance. Never take photos of others during these moments, and always allow families privacy to grieve in peace.
Leave No Trace
Help keep the cemetery clean by using trash bins when available, or taking any litter with you. Leaving trash behind is both disrespectful and burdensome for caretakers.
Keep Pets Controlled
If pets are allowed, keep them leashed and under control at all times. Always clean up after them and be sure their presence is not disruptive to others.