FAQS
We have compiled a list of frequently asked questions that families often have regarding funerals, cremations, and preplanning.
Frequent questions on funeral services
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What are the costs of a funeral?
A traditional funeral involves a number of services which add to the total cost. Besides the price of basic services fee, other charges may include removal/transfer of the body to the funeral home; embalming; other preparation of the body; use of facilities and staff for viewing; use of facilities and staff for the funeral ceremony; use of a hearse, service car, or van; a basic memorial printed package; metal casket, a vault or grave liner, and purchase of a cemetery plot.
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What services do funeral directors perform?
The funeral director's job is to assist the bereaved in various ways to help them through the loss of a loved one. A funeral director provides bereavement and consolation services for the living, in addition to making arrangements for the cremation, burial, and memorial services for the deceased. He fulfills the role of funeral arranger, funeral director, funeral attendant, and embalmer.
The following list is not all-inclusive, but describes some of the major tasks of a funeral director:
- Removal and transfer of the deceased from the place of death to the funeral home
- Professional care of the deceased, including embalming, casketing, and cosmetology
- Consulting with family to make arrangements for the funeral service
- Filing certificates, permits, and other required forms
- Obtaining copies of the death certificate
- Arrangements with the cemetery, crematory, or other places of final disposition
- Creates and publishes the obituary
- Arrangements for clergy, music, flowers, transportation, pallbearers, and special fraternal or military services
- Directs and manages the funeral service and the funeral procession
- Assists the family with death-related claims, including Social Security, VA insurance, grief counseling
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What is the purpose of a funeral?
A funeral or memorial service provides an opportunity for the living to show respect for the deceased and pay tribute to their life. It provides a framework to freely and openly express our beliefs, feelings, and thoughts about the death of our loved one. It gives us permission to grieve our loss, share in solidarity, and gain strength from others who are experiencing the same loss.
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What are the choices for funeral services?
The four main types of funeral services include the traditional funeral service, the memorial service, the committal service, and the affirmation or celebration of life service.
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Can you still have a funeral if you choose cremation?
Yes, cremation or burial is merely the disposition of the body. Funeral services are to honor and remember your loved one, regardless of disposition.
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Can I plan in advance if I choose cremation?
Pre-arranging funeral services can be done regardless of the final disposition. Pre-arranging is simply recording your wishes with the funeral home and prefunding if you choose to do so.
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What information should I bring to the arrangement conference?
Advance Directives - If the deceased left any written advance directives concerning the disposition of his remains and memorialization, you need to bring them with you. These instructions may be found in a will, or there may be a formally witnessed disposition directive, funeral pre-arrangements, or a pre-need contract.
Military Discharge Papers
Details on any cemetery property owned by the deceased or the family (grave plot, columbarium space, etc.)
Recent photograph of the deceased and any personal effects that you wish to be included in the viewing or burial
Specific information on the deceased:
- Full legal name
- Address
- Marital status
- Social Security number
- Date of birth
- Place of birth (city and state)
- Educational history (number of years of schooling)
- Armed Forces service dates and serial number
- Occupation or profession
- Parent's names, including mother's maiden name
- Next of kin and other survivors
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How long does the cremation process take?
This usually depends upon two things: the size of the individual and the type of casket or container used. A thin person in a cardboard container will take approximately 3 to 4 hours while a heavier person in a wooden casket could take approximately 4.5 to 5 hours.
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How can I be sure hat the remains I receive are those of my loved one?
First of all, cremation of multiple people at the same time is illegal in the US and many other countries, so the cremation chamber is not designed to hold more than one person at a time. In addition, cremation is a regulated process with strict procedures we follow to ensure we’re holding our services to the highest standard possible. All necessary paperwork and fees must be completed with local authorities, and then a checklist is completed at the crematory. A metal disk with a unique ID number accompanies your loved one from the time we receive the person throughout the cremation process, and after cremation occurs we attach the metal disk to the bag containing the ashes. Knowing the level of respect and meticulous care with which we treat your loved one, you can rest assured that you are receiving only your loved one’s ashes.
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Is embalming required by law?
No, embalming is generally not required by law. However, many funeral homes do require it for public viewings. If you choose not to embalm, we can often arrange a private viewing before burial with minimal preparation that does not involve embalming.
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What is if I have no family or want someone other than my family to handle my funeral or cremation arrangements?
In Kentucky, a Funeral Planning Declaration form allows you to appoint someone other than your next of kin to oversee your funeral or cremation arrangements. This form is required as part of the preplanning process in Henderson, KY. Contact us to learn more or to begin completing this important document.